Ask Dvorahji: Do I have a choice, Was this my Fault?

ARE YOU THE DOER?
My bumper sticker says: Our problem is we just can’t let go of this “I am the doer bit” …. especially in America where “I will, I can, I must” (and I’m going to do it MYSELF) exists so strongly. The question comes up: “how is it possible that I’m NOT the doer? Impossible”. 
Even long time seekers are still going for the “law of attraction” professing: “Well if I can’t do it, there must be something wrong with my desiring, let me desire even stronger!”
Now everything is possible in consciousness, and desires are fulfilled and many times that fulfillment can coincide with the desire for that fulfillment…BUT THAT STILL DOESN’T MEAN YOU DID IT! You, are like an ant with an intellect. You do what you do, and NOW you can “THINK” ABOUT IT every which way and then bother yourself about EVERYTHING, thinking all the time it’s YOUR FAULT, YOU DID IT! 
WELL in the world of appearance you did do it!! and SO WHAT? SO YOU DID IT, SO YOU MADE A MISTAKE. SO YOU LOST YOUR HOUSE, cause you couldn’t get a job. So you lost your husband, cause you nagged. So your daughter’s on drugs, cause you “think” you didn’t pay enough attention. So your Guru doesn’t call your name or pay attention to you, because you “think” you’re too stupid and have too many negative thoughts!” SO FRICKIN WHAT?
IT HAPPENED, AND YOU can’t do anything about it except what you can at this moment and if you “could have done it differently you would have done it differently and you JUST DIDN’T!!!!. WHY? BECAUSE!!!!!! 
NOW go through your traumas, go through the gyrations, bang your head against a wall and when IT’S OVER….SAY WITH FULL CONVICTION: “if it could have been different it would have been different!!! THEN move on to what YOU need to do next and WHALLLLLAH…YOU’RE IN PEACE AGAIN moving through the LiLa again and again…waving, and screaming and bliss..ing at the next adventures that’s screwing you over……..

Lilly screwed Up and ate the diamond ring – Is it her fault? Couldn’t she have eaten her treat instead?
Written about a month ago ·  · 

Tanbir Kabarwal

Tanbir Kabarwal 

Fantastic Fantastic Fantastic Fantastic Fantastic !
Dvorahji you are a genius…. Nopes an enlightened genius.
May 29 at 1:52am ·  ·  · Flag
Christine Martin

Christine Martin 

Great post! …Love Lily and you!
May 29 at 5:18am ·  ·  · Flag
Patricia Pashia D'souza

Patricia Pashia D’souza 

In-sight-full
May 29 at 5:46am ·  ·  · Flag

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